There is a dude I work with that dresses quite flamboyantly that I thought he was gay. I started complimenting him on his clothes and he told me he would thank his wife, because she picks out his wardrobe.
I guess I was wrong. 🤷
Eventually we found ourselves discussing the new Thor film and he said he hoped it would have been more queer centric as promised.
So, I asked why that mattered ?
He then told me Identifies as Queer and he and his wife are in a polyamorous relationship with the same man. Their marriage is open, but they are both sharing one other person. I didn’t inquire further if all three live together.
I can’t wrap my head around that. I would fear that eventually one of two couples would grow tired of the third wheel. I know in my heart I could never both share my heart and my bed. Ya know it seems like mutual cheating.
But hey to each his own right ? If it works, it works.
I’m more content being in a monogamous closed marriage with a like minded straight and slightly bent woman (we both find men and women attractive). 👩❤️👨