I know at least one of my followers has already signed up to read this memoir, I am venturing down. I will have posts the 2nd and 4th Saturday of every month broken out into 5 chapter’s highlighting the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s, 00’s, 10’s til 2013 when I got married. It will be a very open account of sexuality, coming of age and the perceived unhealthy dependent (destined to be a Mama’s Boy) relationship I had with my Mom until her death in 2002. I called it I’m not a woman because for what ever reason since 1987, no matter how I look, someone out there is bound to confuse my gender which is funny in this age because I’ve always felt all man.
The Artistic Endeavors of Matt Snyder
Some of us just sound like the opposite gender. 🤷♀️
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Oh, that would just as much. You have a deeper voice Chel ?
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Nah. I meant that I use more guy terms and words. I sometimes wonder if I could’ve passed as a guy on the blog if I hadn’t started out so obviously female.
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Iny case people are just fucking clueless. Because I could be fat or thin wear my hair long, short or shaved, have facial hair or be clean shaven , wear glasses or not and dress as masculine as can be and still someone out there will address me as Ma’am
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That is odd. I’m afraid my physique is pretty womanly, too -hang on. It is true that I’ve been mistaken for a guy when I’ve had my hair shorter and am wearing bulky clothes. I forgot. 🙂
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I can sort of maybe understand if everyone saw me as such, but close friends and family have never made the mistake. I can’t grow a full beard to save my life, I have a bunion on one foot, I am not tall, my Adam’s Apple doesn’t protrude, my hands and feet are small , I have soft features and moobs. Sigh…I used to get really mad at people now I just throw it back at them…If a woman says Can I help you ma’am, I say I’m not interested Sir.
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😀 That’s what I would do.
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Can you send me link?
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I know I sent you an invite to your Gmail
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Ahhh….I’ve been a little bit distracted the past three weeks with the dog. I’m trying to get back on my game now. The end of the year I get very lazy
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LA https://imnotawomanamemoir.wordpress.com/
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Ok. I think I followed you
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You did 🙂
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my son gets it all the time…he’s 22, and has long dirty blonde hair – and a beard now! Ever since he was a baby people thought he was female. I even got confused for a boy as a baby, no matter what my mom did!
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Just checked I am following and I am – thankfully.
Looking forward to what I know will be interesting reading 👍🖤
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TO THE PEOPLE WHO LIKED THIS POST, YOU SHOULD CONSIDER FOLLOWING THE BLOG IF YOU HAVEN’T ALREADY…SOME OF YOU HAVE.😁
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